I am very new and after reading stuff for about 3 days I cant figure out my multiwii board. I have a number of problems and questions...
1. FIXED, hd ftdi plugged in backwards

I have arduino 1.0 and multiwii 2.1 I have uncommented define quad x, define crius multiwii se.
When I try to upload the sketch all the lights on the board light up and arduino says uploading, and the progress bar stays around the 80% stage for more then 5 minutes.
What board should be picked in the arduino menu,
what programmer should be picked in the arduino menu
3. STILL NEED HELP the board came with 3 jumper cables to go to the rx, but 2 of them are split out, see pic. where do the cables go, or do i need to buy some more 3 pin to 3 pin
Please Help!! I will continue searching for answers in the mean time.
Thanks