Well your going in the right direction, glad you reduced the rc rate down before you flew imagine what it would have been like at .9. The only reason I suggest .6 is that is what I fly at and that is probably because I have been flying helis and they are a totally different nightmare altogether.
If you flicked from acro to stable mode and didnt notice a difference that is good it means the trim difference between acro and stable is nil or as near as. The only difference between the two modes is stable mode self levels if you let go off the sticks. Only flight will really tell if there is a difference, but if you have it trimmed in acro mode then its just a quick flick of the switch and you know you can control it again if it does something unexpected.
I found that when trimming my copter I would hover see what stick position I needed then land and moved the Tx trim, if I did it in flight I was always looking at the Tx to find the trim switch and lost control of the copter broke a few props that way. Once you get it somewhere near then it is easier to do in flight as it doesnt move around as much, then when you get it spot on it just sits there hovering and you think well that was easy. I also found it easier to sort the Yaw out first as that way I could take my hand off the throttle to adjust or flick any switches.
A step by step guide does not exist for these copters basically because there are so many different types but a rough guide is
Read everthing you can about multicopters, a very goodplace to start is the home page of MultiWii.com
Buy the bits and build copter.
Calibrate ecs's.
Verify correct opertation of gyro and acc, baro and mag (if fitted) in GUI, adjust sensor orientation if required in config.h.
Verify motor rotation and trim in acro mode using Tx trim and GUI to balance motor rpms. If props fitted be very careful.
Check and cure any vibration problem before proceeding. Very important to do this as you wont get a stable copter with vibrations.
Reduce rc rate in GUI to .6 or lower to make it less responsive.
test fly and adjust Tx trim as required.
Adjust acc trim in GUI to balance motor rpms, requires use of stick trim function,or use the in flight method, quicker and I think easier,
http://ncopters.blogspot.de/2012/04/how ... on-in.html a good guide for inflight calibration of acc.
PID leave P at default reduce I and D to zero. Increase P until copter oscillates then reduce it a bit. Repeat for I and D. This is where it comes down to an individuals copter and type of flying as to what setting are required.
MAG Baro and GPS cant help with as I havnt got them sorted myself, hard to fly without props.
LCD havnt got that yet either still waiting for the slow boat from China.
What I have written above is a very condensed version of the Connecting Elements, Software, FAQ's and various links on the home page. I think I have put all the steps in a logical order.