ok, here is my report. i changed the LPF to 188 and didnt feel much different, acc mode still not grabbing the same everytime, then i changed to 98hz, and suddenly its a new bird. acc mode locked into a small radius at a height of only about 6 foot, turned on baro and mag just to turn them on and let it hold while i tried to explain to the lady how awesome this moment is...
anyway, something interesting happened i sisnt expect and am hoping is common, and/or means something is right or wrong, once i had it perfectly level, the props started resonating, it sounded like what you hear when you run your fingers around a crystal glass, and as soon as i moved the quad it stopped until i was level again, or rather until it came to a hover.
tell me this is common, and means i achieved quadcopter karma or something!

these are gemfan 11x4.7 colored props, 750kv motors.